still here

but things change every minute. and instead of being back home, i am still here at brother's. and instead of
funeral being in june, it will be on thrusday. with a thanksgiving in october. it has been a very mamouth task
and stressful for sis because of the amount for her to do which she has to as executor. and i cant be there to
help without spending money i havent got getting there, travel is so expensive in the south.

but here i cant help but put in a few of the strange synchronisities there were.. if i can remember them all -
hopefully sis will correct and add to them..

i booked to come south in january, booked 7th may because it was before some proof reading for festival that
was to be done round about 17th. i booked long enough to visit bro AND uncle, and found sis had also booked
to come back to uk for visit then.

later on sis discovered she couldnt come back then after all. an aunt near uncle i was to visit was going to be
away till later in my visit, so i put off visiting uncle to later in my stay.

but i got here on 7th and was saying to bro on 8th 'must phone uncle tonight'. none of us knew he was in hosp.
but 8th was when he died.

so sis came over when first planned to. the proof reading dates were changed to 9th, 10th, so had to do it
online here anyway. and i missed my uncle.

there were other strange synchronisities but i cant remember them. hope sis can. it was odd.

Comments

Anonymous said…
well, what a journey we have taken. I could not have done it without the two of you, and what you said is true- he gave us a gift, that of the 4 of us coming togther.
Sometimes the support comes from the places you least expect it, and then it means so much more.

waving at you from across the pond, until next time.
amvbaflae xxx bella